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The Old Dear (Elderly Lady)

Intelligent Haunting • Victorian era (speculated)

An affectionate elderly female ghost, known as 'The Old Dear,' is said to frequent The Crown Hotel, often seen in the lounge or on the staircase, exuding a peaceful presence.

👻 Intelligent Haunting 📅 Victorian era (speculated) 🏰 The Crown Hotel (Framlingham)

The Story

Perhaps The Crown Hotel's most beloved spirit is an elderly lady affectionately nicknamed 'The Old Dear' by locals. She is described as a grey-haired woman in a long, dark Victorian-era dress, often seen sitting quietly in a corner of the lounge or standing at the foot of the main staircase. Unlike more startling apparitions, 'The Old Dear' usually appears solid at first, sometimes mistaken for a real guest, before gently fading away. Her presence is associated with gentle knocking sounds on doors, as if she's checking in on guests. Some housekeepers have even mused that indentations on freshly made beds in empty rooms were from 'our old lady' having a nap. She is believed to be a former proprietress or a long-time inn employee from the 19th century who loved the place dearly and continues her hostess duties from the beyond. Her aura is consistently reported as comforting and benign.

Historical Evidence

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Multiple guest and staff accounts over decades, including a TripAdvisor review specifically mentioning her. Consistency in descriptions of her appearance and behavior. Her presence is acknowledged by hotel staff and is part of local Framlingham folklore.

Where to Encounter This Spirit

🔥 Most Active Areas

  • Lounge area (especially a specific wingback chair)
  • Main staircase
  • Guest rooms (appearing by windows or foot of beds)
  • Corridor near Room 3

👁️ Common Sightings

  • Elderly woman with grey hair in a bun, wearing a dark Victorian dress
  • Figure seen sitting in the lounge or standing on the staircase
  • Gentle knocking on doors
  • Peaceful or comforting aura
  • Impressions on beds in empty rooms

Paranormal Investigations

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While not subject to major TV investigations, her presence is a staple of local ghost lore and mentioned during informal paranormal visits. Her benign nature makes her a welcome, if spectral, resident.

🏰 Stay at This Haunted Hotel

The Crown Hotel (Framlingham)

Framlingham, Suffolk

Experience The Old Dear (Elderly Lady)'s haunting firsthand by staying at this historic Built around 1530 (some sources say established 1553) hotel.

👻 Quick Facts

Type: Intelligent Haunting
Era: Victorian era (speculated)
Active Areas: 4
Hotel: Built around 1530 (some sources say established 1553)

🕯️ Paranormal Tips

Best time for encounters: Late evening or early morning hours
Bring: Digital camera, voice recorder, and an open mind
Be respectful: These are believed to be real spirits with their own stories
Ask hotel staff: They often have their own encounters to share

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