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The Grey Lady of Lavenham

Intelligent Haunting • 19th century

The Swan Hotel's most famous phantom is the Grey Lady, believed to be a heartbroken 19th-century housekeeper who died tragically. She haunts Room 15 and the older wings of the hotel.

👻 Intelligent Haunting 📅 19th century 🏰 The Swan Hotel and Spa

The Story

The Grey Lady is the best-known spirit at The Swan Hotel in Lavenham. Legend tells of a young housekeeper or maid in the 1800s who fell deeply in love, only to be betrayed, leading to her untimely death – some say by suicide. Her sorrowful spirit, clad in a pale, greyish-white gown, is said to roam the hotel, particularly Room 15, which is thought to have been part of her living quarters. Witnesses describe her as a melancholic figure, sometimes seen standing at the foot of a bed or gazing from a window. Despite her tragic past, she is not considered malevolent, though her presence often evokes a sense of sadness. Some psychics claim she is eternally searching for her faithless lover.

Historical Evidence

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Numerous consistent eyewitness accounts from guests and staff over many decades. Featured on 'Most Haunted'. A 2019 paranormal investigation reported EMF spikes and EVPs in Room 15. Historical possibility of a real tragedy involving a servant. Discovery of old letters and a locket in a sealed attic space has fueled speculation.

Where to Encounter This Spirit

🔥 Most Active Areas

  • Room 15 (the 'Haunted Chamber')
  • Corridors in the older wing
  • Gallery dining hall (balcony)
  • Top floor corridor

👁️ Common Sightings

  • Pale woman in a long grey or white gown
  • Melancholy expression
  • Figure appearing at the foot of beds or by windows
  • Sudden cold spots
  • Faint sobbing sounds

Paranormal Investigations

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Investigated by TV's 'Most Haunted'. Various paranormal groups have conducted vigils, reporting phenomena like EMF spikes, EVPs, and unexplained cold spots, particularly in Room 15.

🏰 Stay at This Haunted Hotel

The Swan Hotel and Spa

Babergh District, Suffolk

Experience The Grey Lady of Lavenham's haunting firsthand by staying at this historic Parts date to circa 1390 (over 600 years old) hotel.

👻 Quick Facts

Type: Intelligent Haunting
Era: 19th century
Active Areas: 4
Hotel: Parts date to circa 1390 (over 600 years old)

🕯️ Paranormal Tips

Best time for encounters: Late evening or early morning hours
Bring: Digital camera, voice recorder, and an open mind
Be respectful: These are believed to be real spirits with their own stories
Ask hotel staff: They often have their own encounters to share

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